Hello, friend. It’s been a while. Some of the delay in posting was due to my having way too much work to do with my day job, some of it was due to being sick, and the rest of it was due to trying to decide what would be the most useful topic to cover next. When I created this blog, I set out to provide resources and practical tactics to help you deal with your hoard or your hoarding…
Alrighty. You’ve done some hard-core thinking, you’ve gone through your cleanup planning checklist, and you’ve set your rules of engagement. Now it’s time to dive in. There are distractions aplenty in a hoarded home, and it’s easy to get overwhelmed or daunted by the sheer scale of the task ahead of you. Good news! You can split the cleanup into steps that will help you focus and be as efficient as possible. It helps to separate tasks like purging, cleaning,…
Here’s a hoarding cleanup checklist with 10 steps to help you prepare for your cleanup project. This checklist applies to houses where there is a mix of garbage and items that you want to salvage. If your hoarded house is one that’s too hazardous to enter, don’t attempt to clean it yourself. Call a professional crew trained in dealing with biohazards or mold remediation. If the house is full of junk that can’t be donated or that you don’t…
There’s an irrefutable connection between hoarding and one’s decision-making ability. “No duh, Rachel,” you may say. “Obvi, hoarders decided to keep way too many things. Case closed.” But as I read Stuff (by Dr. Randy O. Frost and Dr. Gail Steketee) and The Hoarder in You (by Dr. Robin Zasio), I realized that the relationship between hoarding and decision-making isn’t as simple or straightforward as I’d initially thought. You see, hoarding isn’t solely about choosing to buy or obtain more…
In case you had any doubt, I love my family, y’all. This blog is not to cast aspersions on them. This whole exercise is to share some insight that I picked up along the way about hoarding and one’s relationship to one’s things. You see, I know I’m partly responsible for the state of our house. We all had some habits that unwittingly contributed to a much bigger problem. Can’t See the Hoarding Forest for the Trees When you’re focused…
First Things First: Think This Sh*t Through Before you decide to clean up a hoarded home, you need to sit and have a serious think about it. This is absolutely required and is the #1 thing you need to do before you ever pick up a broom. I’m not talking about coming up with your action plan or assessing the situation, although those are important parts of the process. Those will come later. I’m talking about an honest-to-goodness, soul-searching gut…
Hoarding, Organizing, Cleaning, and Staying Sane
May 4, 2018Hoarding: A Family Affair When I was a little kid, our home was pretty normal. We had the usual amount of clutter, toys, books, and miscellaneous stuff, but it was nothing that couldn’t be shoved into a closet when we needed to tidy up for company. “Hoarding” wasn’t a word in my vocabulary. As I got older, our home began to morph. The “usual amount” of stuff turned into much more. The hoard of objects took on a living quality…